How to make the first kiss special?
Why is he so special?
Do you like the guy, but are you embarrassed to tell him about it? Afraid to hear the “wrong answer”? Do not use words, but use your lips! They will help you determine how your boyfriend treats you and what awaits your relationship in the future. Of course, you want everything to go perfectly. Shame in front of those who you strongly like, do not want to. We will help make your first kiss turn his head. Your lips are all he will dream of in the near future.
First of all, remember that a kiss differs from a kiss. The way he will kiss you later - passionately, strongly, energetically and passionately - will be different from what you will experience the first time. Initially, the kiss will be timid, but very gentle. Such a distinction will help him become unforgettable.
Everything should happen by itself and be the result of a strong mutual attraction.Your lips should touch gently and gently, creating soft, invigorating movements.
Another feature of how to properly kiss a guy for the first time lies in the ability to use his hands. They should not freely wander through the body, touching different parts of the body (especially the innermost!). For this, the time has not come yet. The first kiss is different chastity and tenderness. Any of you can easily touch your partner's face. But such a touch must also be very reverent and careful. If the guy decides to hug you around the waist, you can hug him by the shoulders. Remember that the first kiss usually does not last long and is only a hint of the feelings that await you in the future.
Tips on technique
So, we figured out the essence of the kiss, now we can move on to the technique of its execution. Remember, on a subconscious level, you know exactly how to kiss a guy. You just need to unleash this knowledge and follow your intuition. Guys, for example, do just that. And because the first kiss they often get exactly the way it should be - unforgettable.
If you still doubt that your lips will know what to do at the right moment, then you can practice first. For this fit a variety of exercises that can be performed in private. And after that, prepare for the most important moment in your life. But as practice shows, at the first kiss all the knowledge and skills leave you, leaving only a storm of emotions and fear not to spoil the moment. Therefore, the best advice we want to give you is to relax and try to just enjoy this amazing moment. And you will be able to work out the technique (including kissing passionately).
Let your movements be inept, but certainly the most gentle. If this is the first time for a guy too, then your experience may confuse him. Remember also that you have not only lips, but also hands. Let them "walk" through him, so that he understands that your feelings are mutual.
Kissing is always nice. Therefore you should not focus too much attention on extraneous things. Do not think how you look from the side, or what will be his reaction after. These are extraneous thoughts that should be let go. The main thing is to get pleasure from what is happening here and now.
Scientists have found that during a kiss, a large amount of the hormone is elevated, uplifting. In this case, you both get a charge of vivacity and energy. However, this works only when people like each other.Therefore, it is not necessary to carry out your first kiss with someone who you do not like. Are you impatient and want to be like everyone else (won, have your friends even been passionately kissing)? But such a rush can completely spoil the whole moment. Therefore, it is better to wait for the one whom you really want to kiss.
Do you want to make sure that you know how to kiss? Then do some exercises daily:
- swipe your lips several times to make them more sensitive;
- periodically put lips into a straw;
- turn the candy in your mouth several times - it will practice your tongue;
- often breathe through your nose (get rid of the fear of suffocating during a kiss).
What can spoil the kiss?
Girls often dream of how it will be - your first kiss. Do you want everything to be on top? Then take care of eliminating the factors that can spoil this magical moment:
- Lip conditionNot always keep your lips in a well-groomed form? Then be prepared for the fact that at the most romantic moment the guy simply does not want to kiss you. If at the same time he is very well brought up, he will not be able to tell you that he simply does not like the look of your lips. Cracked, chapped lips can ruin everything. Do not bring them to this. Use special emollient balms, lipsticks, gloss.Also the cause may be the appearance of herpes. Besides the fact that it will give you physical discomfort (itching), it will also spoil the look. Yes, and infect your lover with this sore you do not want.
- Inappropriate environment.Kissing with a guy, especially for the first time, you need in a romantic setting. The representative of the stronger sex does not think of this, so you have to take everything into your own hands. Invite him to go where the romance will envelop you. Let him not be distracted by extraneous thoughts, girls, cars, computers and so on. In a romantic place, he should focus only on you and take a hint. Despite his ostentatious cynicism, many guys are very romantic and therefore will surely appreciate such a gesture on your part.
- Witnesses. Here you definitely should not include them in the plan of a romantic date.Let the first manifestation of feelings be alone. This will contribute to more courage, both with your and his side. And in case something goes wrong, you (or him) will not be so ashamed, as with a large gathering of people. Yes, and share such an intimate moment, like the first kiss, you will not want anyone.
The first is not the last
After our tips that will help you make the right first step, you can move on. After all, after the first, timid and gentle kisses, you probably want to go further. Here you can not do without the knowledge of how to properly kiss the language with a guy.
As we said at the beginning of the article, kisses are different. People like this do not sound trite, too. Therefore, there are those who like light touch of lips, those who love to kiss passionately, and people who can not live without kisses with the language. Before you proceed to this practice with your boyfriend, you will have to decide who you belong to.
So, you are again on a romantic date, talking about trivialities (that is, of course, important things), while you yourself wait can’t wait for the most convenient moment for a kiss. How to determine that the guy is ready? He will start to look very carefully at your lips and bite his own little.If you notice this sign, then get ready - now will kiss.
If you got a guy who has richer experience than yours, then do not worry. You just need to follow his movements and, if you like, too, in response, kiss him passionately.
When you are not completely satisfied with his technique, you should not immediately withdraw or, especially, criticize him. It can ruin your relationship forever. It is enough just not to actively respond actively to a kiss for a passion. If the guy is understanding and sensitive, he will understand the hint.
If you like it, you can try right away in response to find its language in your own language and play with it. Further movement will tell you nature.
He will definitely like this answer.
Important! Do not delay the time of such a passionate kiss. After all, he can turn the head, and you will not understand when you managed to cross the line. Why bring the relationship to mutual disappointment? It is better to slowly enjoy every moment, because it will not happen again.